Monthly Archives: December 2013

Moving ahead against all odds

As integral part of society; women are rapidly joining workforce. It’s an open truth that working women have to face problems just by the virtue of being women. And as being a Pakistani Women, they are referred to those as a paid employment. The social attitude of them are much paused behind the law. There has been a criteria fixed for this attitude which considers to be fit for suitable jobs that are associated with women in Pakistan.

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Women find employment easily as nurses, teachers, babysitter & etc. and as educated women opt for jobs like doctors, engineers, secretaries as of qualifications. When it comes to compensation the law proclaims equality but here it is seldom found. The Pakistani women are capable of work but they are more efficient in governess.  It should be appreciated that women in Pakistan are enthusiastic to support their families in the running conditions of the inflation that is been faced by every Pakistani. They want to make money to help their family and want to discover more of life experiences, and later they develop confidence & self-satisfaction as an individual.

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 Thus they enjoy equality of status, opportunity & healthy competition. They became financially independent and economically sound. They start making their own decisions as it is said that women are good policy makers. As a Mother, Sister, Wife & Daughter she needs respect that she deserve; as it’s expected that they should sit back and look after the household and rest. In the present male dominated, patriarchal society, people find it difficult to accept the women as independent personality. In addition to these hardships, the Pakistani women are bound to play the traditional role of child bearing and child rearing. She can’t abstain from her role as a mother and as a wife.

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Our society had been a male dominated society; the changes are gradually being digested. With necessity of time absences of joint families the financial independence of women are making the male absorb the change slowly but gradually. The actions initiated by the government against the eve-teasing, sexual harassment of working women, have also brought a lot off avoidable change in the life of working women. In spite of all the hardships being faced by the working women, it must be noted that women have fought a great battle and are still fighting at their own against the fright and hardships faced by them and got remarkable success in every field of life.

Women in Pakistan also face problems like sexual abuse and physical harassment. There has been recent legislation that has afforded them protection but it has not been implemented properly. Women will not be able to utilize their talents properly if they do not feel safe in their workplace. An attitude change is needed across the board and a good first step to effect that would be to implement existing women-friendly legislation in letter and spirit. –

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Women are an integral part of the society and deserve to be given the due respect, sovereignty and protection to establish sovereign and developed society. Islam has given clear instructions to respect and protect women and we can only put ourselves on progressive track and established an Islamic society. Women are working with men on all fronts of life and advocating equal rights for women. Government must take concrete measures to protect women rights in Pakistan.

Infected infestation…

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In Pakistan the most silently ignored core issue which has penetrated in the generations to come & unaware of the consequences. Unfortunately the venom has already bite, the bitterness is seen as unbalanced society.

Despite moral, religious & cultural taboos, a sizeable sexual attraction between people of the same sex. Although religiously & legally condemned – but it has been acknowledged openly in the streets on Karachi.

Under Pakistan panel code homosexuality remains as offense, resulting to 2-10 years in jail or to some instance to death. Mostly it’s seen that boys/girls reaches the age of adolescence want to explore their sexuality, experience being an adult, but not proper teachings & head guidance results in discussion with friends & ending in heterosexuality.

As there’s religious influence is present in every aspect of life in our society there is NO BASIC sex education in schools – so it’s so very impossible for youngness to know about the proper measures, identity differences or prevention.

And then there is Karachi. The most vibrant, passionate and energetic face of Pakistan. Every representation from Pakistan can be found in Karachi, whether it was Earthquake, Flood Disaster, Law & Order situation, IDP’s from different areas of country people.

As far as the exploration many of the individuals has adopt this as their profession, following to one machli walah, he claims that get “extra” Rs. 2,000 to Rs.5,000 as a masseur. “We get important people – police, rangers, army officers & sometimes ministers too” Ahmed. He claims to have slept with more than 3,000 men during his working life, despite having 02 wives & 8 children.

The situations with women are much different, as soon as they finishes their Higher Studies the 1st priority of parents is their daughter to get married. So even understanding they become mothers & the assessment is lost (especially ages 16-22), as they felt disgraced & discouraged seek alternatives. The old friend from college or neighbors are the principal source of experience. According to a practicing doctor and one of the counselors for the website, 90 percent of those who have effected in such disorder are women between the ages of 20-30.

Sex between women will be overlooked as long as no-one feels that tradition or religion are being challenged. At the end of it all, knows that already married to a member of the opposite sex and nothing is spoken about.

Although a gigantic illness of our society, can’t be ignored. Gay and lesbian youth are 2 to 6 times more likely to attempt suicide than heterosexual youth. Depression is the main cause of rejection due to family pressure or because of conflicts. Main cause of 40% – 60% metrosexuals because of the homelessness. Verbal & physical assaults are also the fascination with aggression towards this social disorder. Confused increase in HIV patients is enormous concern for the responsible & Governments.

The most risky situation that is the society is infected by such individual but there is no acceptance. Accept the core issue, own it before things get worse & out of control. Why shouldn’t this issue be talked about in schools? Why shouldn’t be counseling be opt to resolve?

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“The risk to our life and security is so great that we can’t even meet or discuss these issues in person,”

“Helping each other virtually is our next best option.”

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Shariqa Ahmed @shariqa_ahmed

I’m coming home!

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Mom… The one who have ever loved me unconditionally is you! And how much ever you might get old you will always be the most beautiful person to tell the people who I am. I was away from home for a while, you and your prayers were always with me, and even then your eyes were saying that you are looking at me for the last time.

 What do I tell you about the place where I am, mother?

But enough of hide & seek, it’s almost midnight and you must be tried, but your heart was saying something is wrong, your senses were hazy and you were extremely worried. Your eyes were waiting….heart going through various emotions, slowly darkness creeping in emotions.

 Here I come with bullets in my body, running blood & calm soul as I fully forgone with justice I did to this soil. I’m looking to the sky to save me but there was no sign, there was dark, but in the end, there was light as if Angels knew that I’m on my way. I grasped that I am not the son of soil, am not from this mud, and following the concept of being Real & Practical; that is my sin, working for the team that is determined for empowering people. As a firm worker of #MQM with aims of serving humanity & people of my country, I finally fulfill the vow I took from QeT Altaf Hussain. I’m back where I belong, I never felt so resilient, I feel like there’s nothing that I can’t bash, and if you with me put your hands high.

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 Tell the world I’m coming home!

Run and tell all of the angels, that this could take all night, I’m coming. Let me say Goodbye to all my friends, my family especially my Mother. I am complete here, with the ones who are flying high. I am done with the patience, and nevertheless tell the angels that everything’s alright. The rain of tears has wash away all the pain, I know my domain awaits, am with the ones who shined before me and it’s like a new dawn began with them. How much ever does the world say, I’m not there but I’m here…

 In every thought of mine, in my every talk, in my feelings, in my emotions, there was only one thing that I could also get the place where Shuhdaas are praised… the wind with the fragrance of Shaheeds, the seasons as colors, whoever sings, or whatever breath echoes – the heart recognizes it in every form. And finally I was welcomed by many of my mates. Even then I felt that QeT Altaf Hussian’s lessons were there. They have never left me alone, they are holding my hand even today…

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How do I show you what is here?

There is freedom and independence like the vast free sky here, like childhood stories, innocent and beautiful – is a dreamland here, I am flying without any worries, and nobody is here to steal or cut my kite’s string. I’ve drunk water from the fountain, I’ve touched several clusters of my dreams, the sunlight along with the shade is here, the atmosphere is so different and new, all that I want is here…  

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 After me, I was praised…

My blood is now the valuable asset, which shall never be forgotten, #MQM was, is & Insha’Allah will remain ALIVE & PROGRESS with the noble blood of martyrs.  Our everlasting sacrifices shall always remembered & will Insha’Allah give ways to reach the destination.

 I died to live forever, I am Home…!

 

Shariqa Ahmed

@shariqa_ahmed

جماعت اسلامی یا قومی ناسور.

For prosperity of Pakistan must #BanJIandIJT !

Junaid Raza کراچوی

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.جب تک کسی بھی شخص یا قوم کو اپنی غلطی یا کوتاهی کا احساس نھیں هوگا وه بھتری کی جانب نھیں بڑھےگا

.ادراک کسی بھی پهلو سے هو همیشه نتایج مثبت هونے چاهیں.

ادراک وتدارک کی منازل جب طے هوتی هیں تو اقوام عروج بام پاتی هیں

آج کافی دنوں کے بعد ایم کیو ایم کے مرکز 90 جا پهنچے.اس مھنگایی کے پر فتن دور میں جب کسی کے پاس بھی وقت نھیں ایسے میں هزاروں کارکنان دیوانه وار راسطے میں هی

جیے الطاف کے نعرے لگاتے نظر آگیے. لال قلعه پهنچتے هی کچھ ھی دیر میں اعلان هوا اور الطاف حسین بھایی کا ٹیلیفونک خطاب شروع هوا.

الطاف بھایی کا خطاب تلاوت کلام پاک و درود تنجینا سے شروع هوا.آغاز خطاب میں هی الطاف بھایی کا لحجه بھت دبنگ تھا جو که آخر تک سلامت رها.ایک جامع خطاب تھا که جس میں عسکری قیادت ، قانون نافذ کرنے والے…

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Why I chose to be Altafist?

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Beliefs have the power to create and the power to destroy. We as Pakistanis have the awesome ability to take any experience of our lives and create a meaning that dis-empowers them or one that can literally save their lives.

With open heart one must accept Realism the philosophy given by Founder & the Leader of millions Mr. Altaf Hussain. Ideological achievements supported on the bases of this theory Practialsm.

Why I chose to be Altafist?

Because …..I have learned that

  • Islam is the religion of peace and security, there is no compulsion in the matter of religion, yet there is no room for Jabr (compulsion) in Islam.

  • Lost millions of ancestors during migration scarified almost everything for very own country and unconditional love for Pakistan. This heaven Pakistan was embraced by scarifies of Pakistanis even before it was created & watered by the sincere blood of such gracious lives.

  • Interest of Pakistan is above everything else!

  • Believes in the principle of politics for serving the people, and its struggle was not aimed at acquiring power only.

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  • For best education, health, defense, finance and judiciary in the country. To promote essential elements for the solidarity, security, progress and prosperity of the country as well as for the welfare of the common man.

  • To eliminate dual educational system that everyone should be deprived of a good standard of education and therefore, to abolish this dual system of education and uniformed education system throughout program for the whole country.

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  • For Religious Harmony, wants to establish a system in the society whereby all citizens may lead their lives in accordance with their religion, faith and belief. Is against exploitation and injustices in the name of religion, faith and sect.  Aims at providing full protection to religious minorities.

  • The progress of the country is not possible without the active participation of women. Women are an integral part of the society and deserve to be given the due respect, sovereignty and protection to establish sovereign and developed society.MQM%20announces%20candidates%20for%202013%20elections%201104

  • Handicapped people are loved and special supervised by the individuals of the society. Needs are provided to enable persons with disabilities to live independently to participate fully in all aspects of life and development.

  • Martyrs are saluted for their supreme scarifies who had fought against injustice & shall not go in waste. History showed that supporters are always read to make extreme sacrifices.

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Altaf Hussain is not just a name; He is an institution from which I have learned the reasons to live & a strong shelter to lean on. He has taught always to educate ourselves with high morals & standards and to respect everyone including elderly & women. He asks to vow ourselves to always speak truth regardless of the potential problems that may be faced. He also taught the message of peace, love and brotherhood should be preached. His teachings include that cause division, hatred and enmity among human beings cannot be right. He adds that differences of language generate irrational racism and the ugly outbreak of racism can divide any country. 

Knowledge has no limits.  He adds that a person quest for knowledge till his death and unfortunately he cannot share his knowledge and experience how he dies.  Knowledge is the endless pursuit of love. World’s 90% internal and external strife and riots will go away if love becomes common.

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Pakistan is reality, likewise people of different religions including Christians, Jews, Parshi, Sikhs and Buddhists who are living in the geographical boundaries of the country are a reality. They are Pakistanis. They should have religious freedom like Pakistani Muslims

He always urged people to promote love not hatred. He added that good of the humanity lies in love and God is also pleased with our good acts. 

People don’t talk that way anymore. It means, if there’s something wrong, those who have the ability to take action have the responsibility to take action. I’m going to steal it.

And yet………

I am proud to be Altafist

Shariqa Ahmed

@shariqa_ahmed

Courtesy mqm.org.com